1 year, 20 days old
You may notice that I label each blog post with Barrett's age. I do this so in the future I have record of what age he was when we do certain things or he reaches certain milestones. Well, this is an event that I need to record for my sanity if/when we get around to a sibling....because I'm taking a long vacation away so I don't have to deal with it again. :)
Not to be completely melodramatic but I don't really like Barrett right now. A few weeks ago, I could have said that 12 months was my favorite age yet. He is really turning into a kid who interacts and you can play with. He learns something new every day and it's a joy to watch. He's just fun. Then this week happened.
It all started last Friday. We had his 1 year well visit with the pediatrician. Prior to this, he was sleeping mostly perfect and acting normal. Whiney at times but mostly out of boredom. We had his regular scheduled 1 year shots, along with the flu shot. During the check up, we found out that he has another ear infection. He had no temperature so we went ahead with the shots. None of this phased us. Shots have been a synch in the past and we know that antibiotics usually clear up the ears pretty easily. We can deal. It was also at this appointment that we found out Barrett finally had more teeth coming in! On Thursday, we found the 1 bottom tooth but at the visit, we could see 4 more top teeth coming. Again, we can deal.
Saturday, Joe and I left B with the Easton's all day while we made a trip to Effingham for Linds and Troys bridal shower. Other than a few incidences of throw up, things went smoothly. I'm pretty sure the throw up was a teething symptom as he has been randomly puking clear liquid from all the extra saliva he has.
Sunday rolled around and it was like a flip was switched. He is non-stop clingy. He's been a really clingy baby most of his life, never wanting to lose sight of a person but nothing like this. He wants up, no he wants down, back up, back down. All the while he is crying. Tears will stream down his face. We go outside (his MECCA!) and he pouts, whines and latches on me. We'll try to get toys out to play on the floor and he climbs on me (wanting to get closer) while screaming. Then he wants nothing to do with me so he runs away. Then runs back because he wants to be near, then the cycle continues. All while he screams!
The first 10 or so weeks of his life, Barrett was colic-y at 9pm nightly. That was nothing compared to this. It's constant. I can't figure out what he needs. He doesn't want anything but he wants everything! He was switched over to his new room at daycare on Monday. In his old room, he never once cried or whined for me when I left. 4 days in a row now, I've had absolutely holy terror cries and latching on to me each morning. When I walk in to pick him up, he sees me, runs to me and tears start streaming. The only "silver lining" in this whole thing is that he's still sleeping great....maybe too great. He's been in bed about 5:45pm every night this week as a result of his behavior. We get home at 5:00 and have just enough time to feed him dinner before he is ready for bed. He practically launches himself into his crib and passes out. 13 hours is a normal night for him. He went 13 1/2 hours one night. He wakes up in the morning and does nothing but cry and whine.
I have no idea what to do. I don't think that anything is necessarily "wrong" and my personality is not one that can just sit back until the problem passes. I need to fix it. At first, I thought it was a mixture of shots, flu, teething, ears, new classroom that were all throwing him off. But I don't think so.
I've been a long time follower of the Babywise method since he was young and I have known about wonder weeks for a long time. Of course, I looked it up yesterday and we could easily be in the thick of Wonder Week 55 (technically based on due date, we would be in Week 54). I really hope that this is all that it is. If that's the case, they say we have potential 6 weeks of this behavior. I'm telling you I will go nuts if this lasts 6 weeks.
I want to enjoy him again. Be able to play and laugh and smile. That is not him right now. This too shall pass. This too shall pass. This too shall pass.